Father’s Day 2020

Fathers are just as much an essential part of a family as mothers are, not just in building and keeping a home together, but more importantly, taking care of their children, in all aspects of the word. This is why there has to be a most amazing relationship created while courting (wooing) each other, building that so important partnership, that allows you entry into that matrimonial epic. (Marriage) When these necessities are carried out, you would’ve built that most amazing platform in which to bring up the children. What I mean by this, is simply that abundance of LOVE that was created and now hovers about, creating that most unpolluted environment, needed for the correct development of children.

Parents have different ways of expressing their LOVE. (COMMUNICATION. UNDERSTANDING, TRUST, AND RESPECT) Mothers are usually the more intimate, emotional confidante, protective parent, focused on the partnership, while the father, usually the more evaluative parent and activity companion. Parents being different in parenting, is usually a massive benefit, as they apply their different strengths, in providing an important diversity of experiences for their children. Usually, the influence of fathers’ love on their offspring development is as great as and occasionally greater than the influence of mother love. Fathers play, build confidence, communicate, discipline differently to mothers, in turn preparing children for the real world. An absence of a father either physically or emotionally has an increased risk for developing behavioral problems, such as depression in children, becoming adults, because they fear abandonment and rejection, usually isolating themselves emotionally as time progresses. It is the consistency of the good practices, from both sides that allow the child to automatically fall into place, without any difficulty, on their journey to their destiny.

When a breakup in the partnership takes place, we find that due to the split, kids find themselves, being spoilt from both sides, as parents try to show, who offers the most, so that they can impress, not realizing that they are spoiling them. Don’t worry about who does the most for the kids, it’s all about who does the best for the children, and the best for the upcoming youth is to spend time disciplining with LOVE, positive parenting, to be a role model, to be your child’s teacher, eating together as a family, reading, allowing him to be heard and most importantly to show respect for the other parent.

In most cases, the father, being the stronger parent, is the one that should try and cushion, out of place situations that occur in the HOUSEHOLD, in turn maintaining that HOME atmosphere at a constant pace. Tit for tat has never worked, as two wrongs don’t make a right, remembering that during parental spats, the one to suffer, is always the child. Just remember that, the children didn’t ask to be here, they were put here, by you, the parents, so whatever happens, it’ll always be your responsibility, be it good or bad, so to avoid those unwanted situations that continuously are in occurrence, just think before you leap, create a vision before you make or take any decisions, because it’s very easy to be a FATHER, but extremely difficult being a DAD.

As a FATHER today, allow your children to one day remember you by the great man that you were, and saying.

THANK YOU, FATHER OF MINE, I’M HERE TODAY, BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU TAUGHT ME, IN GETTING ALL THAT I NEVER HAD, ALWAYS DREAMED OF  WANTING AND AT TIMES THOUGHT I COULDN’T NEVER GET.

HAPPY FATHERS DAY

WHAT A LEGACY TO LEAVE BEHIND, ONE DAY WHEN YOU PART FROM THIS LOVELY WORLD, REMEMBERING THAT IN LIFE, IT’S NEVER WHAT YOU GIVE OR GET, THAT COUNTS, BUT YES! WHAT YOU DO TO CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOR THE BETTER.   CONGRATULATIONS! AND BON VOYAGE.